Is polygamy good and the best way?

Yes, Polygamy is good. For example, For a married man, it is better to take a second, third or fourth wife than to involve himself in pornography, take a mistress, visit prostitutes etc. Similarly, it is a better option for women to be Married to a man forever than to be someone’s mistress or girlfriend. Marriage is a more permanent, longer lasting solution whilst the latter two options she can be brushed off and be dumped with a meager text message. Women prefer long term commitment and stability.

Therefore, Polygamy is good for both men and women.

Is polygamy unfair? 

God tells Muslim men in the Quran that you can marry two, three or four women of your choosing. But if that man is unable to deal justly and fairly between his wives then he is only allowed to marry one wife.

So what would be unfair is if a man is married to more than one wife but favoring one over the other. Beyond that, forced marriage is not allowed in Islam or any civilized society. Polygamy is always practiced by consenting adults who know their rights.

What is a polygamy family?

A Polygamous family has one father but more than one wife at the same time. This means there would be children from multiple wives, all being looked after by one father but multiple wives. Studies have proved that children from polygamous families are far better equipped for life than children from monogamous families. Due to a greater number of adult guiding them through childhood.

What are some benefits of polygamy?

Men: They’ll be less involved in pornography, married men won’t have as many extramarital affairs. They’ll stop visiting prostitutes, fewer affairs, less sexual partners etc means more disease control.

Women: Married women will have less worry about their men having affairs and bringing home diseases. Also certain women otherwise would be marginalised or sidelined.

Is polygamy bad?

No, no matter how negatively the media has portrayed it so far. It’s always been showing those small self-made crazy cults (often mis-using Christianity) and scare mongering people.

Polygamy is one of the most liberating and natural forms of relationships known to mankind. Benefitting men, but more so women. In the absence of a polygamous society, women are nothing but priced commodities. As a girlfriend, she is ditched with a single text. As a mistress, she has no right to a man’s time and attention, beyond his choosing. She is stripped of her person and literally of her dignity in the guise of porn STAR-domship. She is trafficked like an animal to be rented out as a prostitute. She is sold and fed drugs to numb that soft beautiful soul of hers from reality and when all that is done. She is a nobody…discarded like a used rubber covering.

If the world took on board the Islamic methodology of Polygamy, women would have an equal share in their husband’s treatment, financial help, affection and time. Above all that she would be recognized as an honorable wife, lover, mother, sister, and every warm loving female role model we can think of. In a gist, NO….NO, Polygamy is not bad. It just benefits large scale business to make you afraid of it.