Do not share Contact Details?

Contact details are not allowed to be posted onto your profile. When you have established a connection with another user, you can give them your contact details to continue the conversation elsewhere.


If we find contact details anywhere on your profile, we remove them, apply a written warning on your profile, and apply a strike to your account.

How to increase Profile Percentage?

The profile percentage is determined by how filled in your profile is. Once you have filled in your profile to a high percentage, you will appear in searches and will be able to search and view other profiles.

In order to increase your percentage you can;
-Answer all the questions in the “Basic” information sections. Have a minimum of 20 words in each section of your profile.
-Upload a photo of yourself. (Maximum photos – 8)
-Upload a video of yourself.
-Verify your identity by sending a photo of yourself showing your ID.

How to Stop Receiving Notifications?

Asalaamu Alaykum & Hello,

Below are simple instructions on how you can stop receiving any further notifications from us regarding your SecondWife.com or Polygamy.com account.

STEP 1: Log into Polygamy.com and click on the “Settings” icon on the main dashboard.

STEP 2: Now on the left-hand menu, click the “Notifications” link.

STEP 3: As indicated in the diagram below, toggle the settings button(s) here to activate or cancel site notifications.

How To Cancel Recurring Payments?

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There are 2 ways to stop any further payments coming out of your Polygamy.com account.

  1. From within the login area of Polygamy.com
  2. From within your own PayPal account.

STEP 1: Log into Polygamy.com and click on the “More” button in the top right-hand corner.

STEP 2: Now on the left-hand menu, click the “Membership” link.

STEP 3: As indicated in the diagram below, click the “Cancel” button.

STEP 4: Log into your own PayPal account.

STEP 5: You will arrive on the page shown below. Now click on the “Cancel” link within PayPal.

STEP 6: A double confirmation popup will appear. Click on the yellow/orange “Cancel Plan” button to proceed.

STEP 7: Voila, PayPal will display the following Cancelled Subscription confirmation page.

FINAL STEP: Log back into Polygamy.com and check your subscription status. It should now clearly show as “CANCELLED”. If it is not doing so, Get in touch with us.

Can polygamy ever be considered an acceptable form of behavior by society?

In a society that now defends and legally recognizes a man having sex with another man. YES, 100% certainly yes, and I wouldn’t go as far as using such alienating terms as “acceptable form of behavior”.

This modern-day society has not only crossed lines in many respects but gone way beyond those points. Polygamy will be the next form of relationship to be legally recognized very soon.

Would people be happier if polygamy was accepted in society? 

No doubt, Polygamy would allow men to have multiple wives, thus reducing extramarital affairs and cutting down prostitution. As for women, especially those that are widows, divorced or have a few children, who are seen as baggage ladies will now get a husband and someone to love and look after them. The end result is that both men and women would be happier if polygamy was accepted again. And, there are numerous studies that children from polygamous families are more prepared for the wider world compared to children from monogamous and single parent families.

Is polygamy unfair? 

God tells Muslim men in the Quran that you can marry two, three or four women of your choosing. But if that you are unable to deal justly and fairly between your wives then you should only marry one woman. So what would be unfair is if a man married to two or more wives and was favoring one over the other or treating one better than the other.

Beyond that, forced marriage is not allowed in Islam or any civilized society. Polygamy is always practiced by consenting adults who know their rights.